One Thousand Gifts: The Christmas Edition (64-96)

The first day of the new year finds me on my hands and knees, scrubbing toilets, wiping down the damage done by a hard holiday week. Company came, we celebrated, and then, one after another, for six straight days, nine of them got sick. Even the dog threw up.

I wish I could say I had fun anyway, that it was a holy and happy Christmas in spite of the disgusting circumstances, but I can’t. At least not easily.

But I guess that’s where eucharisteo comes in, this practice of counting gifts. That even in the rankest of situations, joy is still possible – by giving thanks anyway.

And so, with sponge in hand, I thank Him for:

Wes @ Airport

Rainey on Escalator

Unexpected Christmas Carolers

Sleepover with Nana

Cousins on Christmas Eve

Letters to Santa

Twas the Night Before Christmas

Christmas Morning Smiles

Big Toys for Big Boys

Re-gifting on the Spot

Homemade Coasters

In-laws and babies

Piercing Her Ears

Pierced!

Park

Park

 

Park

Big, Brown EyesFlowers

64. Airports and escalators, and waiting for Nana to arrive

65. Unexpected Christmas carolers

66. Sleepovers with Nana

67. Cousins together in jammies on Christmas Eve

68. Letters to Santa, still believing

69. ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas, read on an iBook

70. Late-night wrapping blitz, presents under the tree before midnight

71. Christmas morning smiles

72. Big toys for big boys

73. Re-gifting on the spot

74. Her handwritten letter to me and homemade coasters declaring this truth

75. A friend praying me through the madness…and delivering brown sugar on Christmas

76. In-laws, outlaws, and baby boys and girls

77. A dishwasher that works, a hot water heater that holds up, and a fridge full of food

78. Stealing an early morning hour with her, sharing headphones, the road, and our hearts

79. Finally getting that feather in her hair

80. Pierced ears!

81. Her courage, Nana’s hand so I could capture it on film

82. The hospitality of a friend – during naptime – welcoming us in anyway

83. Her willingness to take six kids to a matinee

84. Fresh air, fun times at the neighborhood park

85. Getting lost in those big, brown eyes

86. Long walks, turning away from old rutted paths, forging new ones

87. The three of us cruising our hometown “incognito”

88. Sock bun!

89. Ginger ale. Lots and lots of ginger ale.

90. New, yummy ways to pop popcorn for him

91. An ottoman’s new lease on life, thanks to her craftiness

92. A laundromat open on New Year’s Day and a husband willing to spend a few hours there

93. Clorox wipes

94. Hope rising

95. His work to rescue and transform me (read more here…)

96. Flowers delivered post-recovery (Thanks, guys!)

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One Thousand Gifts (46-63)

Sorry the list is a little late this week, folks. The flu is stampeding like a thousand wild horses through this house again. That must be the hard eucharisteo the book was talking about. {Grin.}

SunsetStorytimeRoadside RoosterFriends at Art ShowLaundry PileBig BlueChristmas BookJesse TreeSpinning Top46. A sunset on the way home from afternoon tea.

47. That freckle near the corner of his eye.

48. Unplugging the heating pad and putting it away.

49. Reading a favorite book with a big sister.

50. A roadside rooster on our backroad adventure.

51. Friends who come to support her.

52. Honesty from a trusted teacher.

53. The laundry of a sick child.

54. The sweet reunion between a tummy-sick boy and his freshly laundered blanket.

55. The smell of an old Christmas favorite.

56. Lesson planning, whining, hard school days.

57. Untying the bumpers of his crib.

58. A disheartening message.

59. A dying dog.

60. Doing this (almost) every night at dinner.

61. Realizing that needing Him is the key to knowing Him.

62. My favorite nurse, for making the all-night vigil.

63. A spinning top for a crazy-delighted boy.

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One Thousand Gifts (28-45)

We’re busy here, cleaning up after a very fun and very full Thanksgiving weekend and getting ready for Rainey’s first semi-sort-of-professional art showing this Friday, so I appreciate a little grace and understanding for just posting the list this week…

Those Eyelashes

Those BunsThose Buns

Cat on the Table

Sitting at the Kids Table Again

Stringing Christmas Lights

Hijacked Camera

"I will set the day to bake!"

Having Too Many to Choose From

28. A mom who listens long and validates my mama bear instincts.

29. Train whistles and church bells, hearing both from my living room.

30. Those eyelashes, those buns.

31. His late night run to the grocery store for more green beans.

32. Cat on the dining room table minutes before company comes.

33. Sitting at the kids table again.

34. Teamwork in the kitchen.

35. Stringing Christmas lights, even if only half of them light up.

36. A hijacked camera, seeing things from her perspective.

37. My identity in Christ and a friend who reminds me of it.

38. Shopping trips where the thing spent most is time together.

39. Finally finding a sturdy shoe rack on sale.

40. Misunderstandings and migraines.

41. Naked trees revealing beauty behind their branches.

42. Sunday’s sermon challenging me to believe that I can overcome anything by this.

43. Singing Christmas carols with broken strings and borrowed guitars, then cueing them up at home and blaring them in the kitchen.

44. Pulling a Mrs. Biddlebox.

45. Having too many to choose from.

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One Thousand Gifts (18-27)

His name is Ken, and we meet under the most unusual circumstances.

It’s Saturday, and the Montour Preserve is hosting a Wildlife Artist Expo. I drive my oldest – the one who announced at her preschool graduation that she wanted to be a wildlife artist when she grew up – the scenic twenty minutes it takes to get there, past the farmer’s market, the Amish boys behind horse-drawn plows, the towering smokestacks of the power plant.

We arrive at the environmental education center where she shyly tucks her sketch pad under her fleece, a strange combination of eagerness and embarassment about showing off her work to the “real” artists inside. We enter the modest room where bird calls are coming from a CD player in the back, where a dozen or so exhibitors are set up, displaying ducks and wild turkeys carved from wood, oil paintings of winter scenes and white-tailed buck, and photographs of blue jays, cardinals, and red-bellied woodpeckers.

“This is awesome,” she whispers to me, and all eyes turn to watch this little girl, fascinated, as she slowly and carefully takes a closer look at each creation.

A photographer engages her in pleasant conversation about the life stages of a butterfly, the amazing metamorphisis he’s captured on film, and another offers her a complimentary portrait of three blue jays feeding on an old tree stump after she blushes and bares a few samples from her slightly concealed portfolio.

“To encourage her budding talent,” he tells us.

She thanks him silly, and we walk past more wood carvings, more watercolors and more smiling, friendly artists. We almost complete the circle around the room, the keys are in my hand ready to leave, but something catches her eye.

It’s a small table, not much bigger than a card table, and a few neutral-colored frames are spread out across its surface. She takes a few steps towards it, and suddenly she’s waving me closer. I’m by her side now, crouching low, and I’m intrigued, too, when I see several highly-detailed pictures painted on the faces of autumn leaves.

The artist is nowhere to be seen, just a framed picture of a young man and his bio accompany the display. So Rainey starts firing questions at the woman monitoring the table instead.

“How does he preserve each leaf? What kind of paint brushes does he use? What kind of paint? Does he use a magnifying glass? How old is he? How does he find all those leaves?”

The woman smiles politely at Rainey’s enthusiasm, and looks around the room before lowering her voice and leaning in closer to say, “Actually, it’s kind of a sad story.”

She tells us the story of Ken, the tale of a troubled childhood, of an abandoned man-boy, and how he taught himself to paint just six years ago at the age of 22. Cindy, the woman behind the table telling us the story, met Ken through a prison ministry, and she and her husband quickly “adopted” him and encouraged him to pursue his new hobby. Now Ken, who relies solely on the leaves that blow into the prison yard, spends his days behind bars painting nature scenes on his chlorophyl-faded canvases, and Cindy spends hers quietly showing them to the world.

The story captivates both of us, the paintings take on a whole new beauty, and I want to reach out and squeeze this woman, this spiritual mother, who’s taken a budding artist, like mine, under her wing, too.

But Rainey picks a framed leaf instead, the one with a tiny, fluffy duckling swimming in a pond, and we pay a small price, knowing that what little money Ken earns from it he will probably use to buy art supplies, and we thank Cindy for her time, for her story, and for her ministry to the least of these.

Leaf

The whole way home, as I watch the farms and fields around me falling asleep, the last of the autumn leaves giving way to winter, I can’t help but think of Ken and Cindy and how, like nature and its seasons, we witnessed a change that afternoon, the kind that can transform a human heart when it knows it is really, truly loved, and it makes me offer thanks…

Field in Fall

Tree in Fall

Leaf

Homemade Drumset

Dirty hands with worm

Littlest Helper

Littlest Helper

Open the Front Door

18. For what has been and what’s to come.

19. How God can open doors, even prison doors, for new life to enter in, for beauty to shine out.

20. Sisters helping each other with morning chores.

21. Back pain that brings me to my knees.

22. Friends who answer the call to travel to faraway places to be His hands and feet, for inspiring my daughter to do the same.

23. Homemade drumsets.

24. Girls night in.

25. Made-up words (That one’s for you, Candace.).

26. Dirt-caked hands busy in the garden, young yardwork helpers.

27. Front doors open wide on a warm November day…

{Pssst…if you would like to send Ken a card in prison to lift his spirits this Christmas, shoot me an email and I’ll send you his address.}

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One Thousand Gifts (1-17)

Okay, I’ll admit it: I hate Thanksgiving dinner. The Pumpkin pie, the turkey and stuffing, the cranberry sauce. All of it.

I know. It sounds un-American, almost Scrooge-like, but honestly, I’d rather order pizza. My husband refuses, though, because he LURVES it. All of it. Right down to the giblets.

So every year he’s in charge of fixing the Thanksgiving feast. Since he enjoys both the menu and the culinary challenge of preparing it, who am I to stand in his way? Heck, I’m happy just to sit on the couch and watch the parade while he slaves away in the kitchen.

But this year I’m starting a new tradition, and I don’t mean cooking the colonial beans or asking for seconds of the yam puff. Nope, this year, I’m making a list, a Thanksgiving list, based on the book, One Thousand Gifts, by Ann Voskamp.

I read the book this summer, and it’s challenged me to look at my life through the lens of gratitude, to accept everything God gives, good or bad, as gracious gifts. The result? A life of limitless joy. Now that’s something I can sink my teeth into.

So, dear Internet, here’s my list. Join me every Monday as I count my way to one thousand (and feel free to add your own in the comments!).

1. God.

2. Jesus.

3. Love.

(Let’s just get those three out of the way right up front. I want extra points in Sunday School.)

Footie pajamas

Peacock

Angel

Leaf-y Joy!

Sunrise

Barn

Science Experiment

4. Footie pajamas and the tiny people that wear them in this house.

5. Peacocks and snow angels.

6. Handwritten apologies accompanied by Milky Ways and Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups.

7. Leaf-y joy!

8. Embers in the fireplace on a cold morning.

9. A long stretch of sunny days.

10. Friends who are as generous as they are creative. (Thank you, Jody Hayes, for the awesome new logo!)

11. Sunrises and barns on my Tuesday morning commute.

12. Doing schoolwork with a cat on my lap.

13. A husband who reads and wrestles and cuddles with kiddos at bedtime (and cooks Thanksgiving dinner).

14. The flu making its way through our family this weekend.

15. Science experiments that actually work.

16. Getting off with just a warning.

17. Stargazing walks through the neighborhood, finding Jupiter…

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